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What to Expect During Your First Mediation

What to Expect During Your First Mediation

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So you have just agreed to mediation in a last first or last attempt to resolve a dispute, complaint or disagreement regarding your business, neighbor, employer or family member. You may also be anxious or even nervous about next steps and what to expect in mediation.

First, you can expect a mediator or a staff associate to contact you to gather initial information in regards to what led you and the other party/parties to meditation, describe the process, schedule the mediation appointment and answer any outstanding questions that you may still have. Anyone who may contact you prior to the mediation is also a neutral, just as the mediator will function during your appointment.

Remember that the role of the Mediator is to be completely objective and neutral when assisting with the facilitation of a resolve that is mutually beneficial for all parties involved. During your mediation, while it is important to discuss history of the matter or vent about the situation, but it is counterproductive to blame each other.

Most mediators begin by making an opening statement which usually includes housekeeping details and any ground rules important to your mediation. Some of the things that you may hear are introductions or parties or attorneys present, asking if parties present have authority to make decisions, time constraints, bathroom locations, breaks, the use of telephones or other electronic devices, etc. Some Mediators may then describe the technique or method that will be used to resolve the matter in question.

Some mediators keep the entire process of discussion in the same room while others choose to caucus where matters are discussed in a private setting. Caucuses have various purposes and may be used to gather more delicate or private facts, because a party may be reluctant to share a fact more confidential in front of all parties involved. While confidentiality can be assured and assumed, it does not mean that admitting a fact in caucus results in a bias or “upper-hand”. Though the time spent by the mediator in caucus may seem uneven, parties should assume that the mediator is in discussion that will ultimately lead to a mutually beneficial resolve.

If the mediation is successful, the parties will reach some sort of resolve that is mutually beneficial or compromising and the mediator with draft a Resolution Agreement that needs to be signed by all parties. While additional details may be necessary to discuss in the future, the results of the mediation will be reduced to writing in the Resolution Agreement.

When going to your first mediation, be firm but willing to compromise for the sake of resolution. You should also expect success in mediation - it will likely occur.